The Male Body Language Of Attraction - How To Arrange Yourself
You do not need to look like Brad Pitt, have a phd in Shakespearean literature, drive an Range Rover, or be James Bond to be appealing to girls. You just have to have something that is much more crucial than any of those things. Something that is constantly with you and constantly giving off signals that are crucial for an intimate encounter with a girl: The body language of attraction.
With the right body language, when you go into an area, you will communicate the "I'm a guy, I'm alpha, I'm available, and I know exactly what I'm doing" ambiance to every girl in there. And when you have your target in your sights, you can rapidly and effortlessly convey: "I want you, you attract me, and I wish to get to know you better.".
Girls detect the subtle signals guys emit.
Yes they do! And what's even more, based upon these faint signals, they'll immediately evaluate if you're a prospective mate or some dork primate. It's time you discovered exactly how to utilize this to your benefit. And the very best method to benefit from this is to learn ways to utilize your body. This is something everybody can master how to do, and can help provide you an edge over men who are much better looking with larger pectorals and a more expensive sports car!
How you look is part of your body language.
Not the appearance you are born with but the way you shape the way you look. It is with how you establish your look that you broadcast your masculinity to girls. When you see a gorgeous girl with an ordinary or below average man, and you ask her why she finds him appealing, she might state something along the lines of: "I have no idea. It's just something about him that he has ... like an aura or energy."
In fact, it's nothing at all of the sort. Partly, it's the way a guy dresses that communicates specific things to a girl: the kind of t-shirt you put on, the trousers you wear, the coats and ties you put on, your haircut, the manner in which you form your facial hair if you have any, the length of your sideburns, your tan, the brightness of your teeth-- all these elements add to the instant image women get of you when they initially meet you. Even more crucial than these things is just how you move and carry yourself.
Ways to move like you're an Alpha male.
When you move, move with grace. I'm not referring to a sissy ballerina kind of grace here, but an "cocky" kind of grace that will gather attention. Cocky grace can be directly converted to "macho swagger."
Think about how Vin Diesel, Bruce Willis, and Brad Pitt walk, and you'll get a concept of exactly what this is. It is standing straight with shoulders a little back and moving with an effortless self-confidence that makes sure to get women's interest.
Exactly what do I do with these hands?
What you should not do is to put them in your pockets. When you keep your hands in your pockets, you look like you have something to conceal. Likewise, do not cross your arms. Crossing arms make you look defensive and aloof.
If you definitely need to put your filthy little paws within your filthy little pockets, make certain to keep you thumbs outside and hooked on the exterior of your pockets.
The thumb represents power and showing the thumb for all to see signifies self-confidence. NEVER HIDE YOUR THUMBS, specifically from beautiful girls!
If you are trying to find something to do with your hands, lock your thumbs in your waistband above your trouser pockets, with your fingers pointing to your crotch. If you lean against a wall or a bar, thrust your hips forward a little (keep in mind to be subtle!). This is a position meant to convey male sexuality.
"Pointing to (framing) your crotch" is what is referred to as crotch framing, made popular by the iconic James Dean. This is a sign of male potency and power. How many times have you seen this kind of pose on TELEVISION or in the movies? Not by the hero, obviously, but by the bad boys that girls so frequently swoon over.
When the bad boys do it, it indicates to everybody that: "I'm a threat. I am a dangerous guy for a girl to wish to be with. I am a guy and I make no apologies for exactly what I want!".
On a smaller sized scale, this is precisely what you are conveying. In the larger picture, your objective ought to be to cultivate an aura of masculinity that will intrigue the available girls around you.
Ways to lounge like a Boss
Firstly, do not hesitate to take up room, particularly if you're in a packed location. You need to constantly convey your boss status in the way you stand and the way you sit. Stand straight, shoulders back, legs shoulder-length apart, and hold your ground.
Do not let others crowd you. Too frequently, guys will reduce their private bubble in crowded locations so as not to disturb others. Do not do this. Make physical contact with people around you and consume space. This conveys a kind of authority to others, when they see others offering you the space you take.
When you sit, lounge. Be comfy. Sling your arm on the back of the chair. Spread your legs. Lean back. Pretend you're at home with where you are.
Are you an Extra or an Alpha ?
You can instantly tell who are the alphas and who are the extras. The alphas, with their body language, produce some kind of self confident alpha ray that girls will detect and end up being unconsciously attracted to. This kind of "alpha ray" can be studied and with practice, mastered.
If you wish to catch the attention of the type of girls that you know you deserve, you must master the body language of attraction. Or you can be an extra and help the alpha males to stand out all the more.